Cake for dinner… every child’s dream! As adults, though, we find this particular kind of cake is our dream dinner. Savory, irresistible shrimp cakes with a gingery-lime mayonnaise and salad. With a little advanced prep, they come together very quickly and, before you know it, a wonderful light summer supper is on the table.

This particular evening, we shared the meal virtually with friends across the country. Through the magic of Zoom, we cooked and ate dinner with Towny and Susan in Portsmouth (New Hampshire), with Emily and Matt in Asheville (North Carolina), and Aida and Hannah in Chicago (Illinois). I sent everyone the recipe, equipment needs, and how to prepare the mise-en-place to help with meal prep flow.

We coordinated across time zones to start at the appointed hour and, as we put dinner together, we sipped wine, caught up with everybody, exchanged stories and laughter. It was great to have some face-to-face interaction, even if on a screen. We even enjoyed Aida’s visit to her salad garden to pick greens as we prepared to plate the meal.

After a five-minute break to move to our respective tables, we rejoined one another for dinner and more talk. While maybe a tad awkward to hold conversations virtually, we still continued to share fun stories, commiserate with Emily and Matt about their non-wedding wedding, and to hear what everyone else was up to in their part of the world. We definitely missed the hello and goodbye hugs, but we still got to look into everyone’s eyes, smile without a mask, and remember that—no matter the distance—we are connected every day.

As a gift, Susan and Towny sent each of us a bottle of 2019 Château Barbebelle Cuvée Madeleine Rosé for us to pour and sip in unison. I wrote about it for the Provence WineZine; you can read more about it there.  Sharing the same wine was one more way to share in a fuller experience.

~ David

47 Comments

  1. Fran @ G'day Souffle'

    July 4, 2020 at 7:46 am

    What a combo! I love the idea of the flavored mayonnaise. Isn’t Zoom great? I’ve been teaching a Croissants class through Zoom, using two cameras placed over the stove and counter top. Happy Fourth of July!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 5, 2020 at 1:11 pm

      I’ve been teaching some cooking classes to students on zoom, too, Fran. It’s quite fun! I’m impressed that you are doing croissants — that is a LONG zoom class!

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  2. Gerlinde

    July 4, 2020 at 8:30 am

    I love this recipe and have to give it a try once I can use my kitchen again. Happy Fourth of July David.

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  3. John / Kitchen Riffs

    July 4, 2020 at 11:21 am

    Such a delightful story! How fun to have a virtual dinner like that. Sounds most enjoyable. And this recipe sounds enjoyable, too. Much as I like crab cakes, I think shrimp (and in this case, fish) cakes work much better, at least for me. You can also play with the flavors much more — which is a lot of the fun of cooking. Really nice — thanks.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 5, 2020 at 1:13 pm

      Thanks, John — I like them all! Fish, shrimp, scallops, and crab cakes — and combinations of them.

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  4. sippitysup

    July 4, 2020 at 4:19 pm

    This is the best ZOOM idea I’ve seen yet. GREG

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  5. Eha

    July 4, 2020 at 5:16 pm

    On a weekend I thought I would have little honest and real about which to smile you proved me wrong ! An absolutely priceless way for friends to share life . . . especially under the current circumstances ! What fun it inevitably was . . . We are left with the story and a great recipe. Love fish cakes and yours with prawns will be shared with friends . . . it nods to the east and nods to the west and promises so much flavour and will definitely go atop my kitchen list . . . love your plating: we speak the sane language . . .

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 5, 2020 at 1:15 pm

      Thanks, Eha — I’m doing everything I can to keep my life going as “normally” as possible. This is a lot of fun. I hope you enjoy the shrimp cakes!

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  6. Christina Conte

    July 4, 2020 at 11:15 pm

    I love this zoom dinner idea! The wine connection is above and beyond! How wonderful that was. I’ve never had shrimp cakes, but I know I would enjoy them immensely! Thanks for the uplifting post, David! Loved it!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 5, 2020 at 1:17 pm

      Zoomtails have been so popular, we figured why not dinner/ (Zoomer? Zinner?) I hope you are doing well, Christina.

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  7. 2pots2cook

    July 5, 2020 at 6:28 am

    Beautiful way to connect and share meals ! As Christina says : so uplifting ! 🙂 Thank you !

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 5, 2020 at 1:17 pm

      Thanks, Davorka – it was fun to share it with everyone.

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  8. Susan Manfull

    July 5, 2020 at 6:58 am

    I began to forget that we were Zooming as soon as our cooking began and, by the time we sat down for dinner, I had completely forgotten about Zoom. At the risk of sounding too metaphysical, we had risen above Zoom and were “in the moment.” (Okay, maybe the wine helped!) Once the cooking began, we were engaged in the business of creating what we knew would be a wonderful dinner — David had helped us each set our respective stages — and we were too intent on comparing how the cooking was going in each kitchen to notice how it was that we were able to see into each other’s kitchen! Opening, toasting, and tasting the Château Barbebelle Cuvée Madeleine Rosé was the same. Dinner unfolded magically: comments about the simply fabulous shrimp cakes –beautifully plated, with David’s guidance — flowed along with lots of conversation about the wine and how well it paired with the food. Did I make it clear how terrific the shrimp cakes and that mayo are? Cheers!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 5, 2020 at 1:19 pm

      Thanks, Susan! For the lovely comment and for the wine! It was so much fun to spend time with you and Towny, Emily and Matt, and Aida and Hannah.

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  9. Chris Durboraw

    July 5, 2020 at 7:37 pm

    David, this looks awesome – I definitely want to make the lemon/lime mayo. Could I use just shrimp for the “cakes”? Have some firm white fish , but just wondering! Hmmmm.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 9, 2020 at 7:39 am

      As I mentioned in my private message to you, try it with all shrimp — it would probably work fine, although the whitefish helps it stay together a bit. The worst thing that will happen is that it will fall apart a little — but still taste great!

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  10. Jeff the Chef

    July 6, 2020 at 5:23 am

    Imagine how much more difficult this pandemic would be without video conferencing! I’m glad you were able to have a great time with your friends. The shrimp cakes sound wonderful, but I could imagine a million uses for ginger-lime mayo!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 9, 2020 at 7:40 am

      Not a drop of that mayo was wasted, Jeff – we used it in all sorts of ways, just as you imagined.

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  11. Melissa

    July 6, 2020 at 8:02 am

    I happened to have almost all the needed ingredients in the house so I made these for dinner last night, using maitake mushrooms in place of the shiitakes and safflower oil rather than canola for the mayonnaise. They were terrific, David. Thanks for the recipe!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 9, 2020 at 7:41 am

      Maitakes are a great substitute — wish they were readily available here! Glad you liked them, Melissa — I love when people make recipes and report back!

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  12. Karen (Back Road Journal@comcast.net

    July 6, 2020 at 1:47 pm

    Oh how very fun…a terrific way to share a meal with your friends. Now you have shared the meal with not only your friends but with us blogging friends as well. The shrimp cakes sound great, I’ve pinned the recipe.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 9, 2020 at 7:42 am

      We are going to need to get used to this way of “entertaining “ for a while, Karen — we might as well make it as fun as possible! Hope you like the shrimp cakes!

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  13. sherry

    July 6, 2020 at 11:26 pm

    fabulous idea to zoom for dinner david. we’ve been doing lots of zooming too – chatting not dining. so nice to catch up with people far away. love the look of your prawn cakes!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 9, 2020 at 7:43 am

      We do lots of Zoom and FaceTime chats, too… but dinner is a fun way to extend the experience!

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  14. Raymund

    July 7, 2020 at 1:02 pm

    I had done some drinks over zoom in various time zone but this one is something I want to try with my friends, such a great idea. And yes why not have cakes for dinner if its as delicious as that Shrimp Cakes, yummy!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 9, 2020 at 7:44 am

      I think you will really like doing this, Raymund. There is something about sharing a meal that just makes everything taste better!

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  15. Ron

    July 8, 2020 at 1:37 am

    What fun David and what a smashing menu. And, oh yes, cake for dinner, please. We love crab cakes and fish cakes, so I can’t wait to give this a go.
    Now, I have to go learn how to use Zoom so I can attend a virtual dinner party. Thanks for another great post…

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 9, 2020 at 7:45 am

      Ron — you really do need to learn Zoom — it’s so easy (even I learned it in 15 minutes! It will be a game changer while we hideout at home!

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  16. Liberty Belle

    July 8, 2020 at 4:20 pm

    Seems like a wonderful time with wonderful people and good food.

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  17. Priya

    July 9, 2020 at 8:05 am

    Totally love the idea of using mayonnaise here. You know, This cake reminds me of my mom’s sago and potato mini cakes recipe which looks exactly like this 🙂 Zoom is the biggest stress buster these days 🙂

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 10, 2020 at 8:31 am

      Zoom has been amazing during all this, Priya – it gets us as in-person as possible.

      The mayo is a wonderful condiment!

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  18. All That I'm Eating

    July 10, 2020 at 5:27 am

    What a brilliant idea! Such a fun thing to do on Zoom and I love that you had ‘cake’ for dinner. That mayonnaise sounds divine.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 10, 2020 at 8:32 am

      Thanks, Caroline – it is definitely fun to see people during all this.

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  19. Marcelle

    July 10, 2020 at 6:40 am

    David, I already love these shrimp cakes. I must make them soon, I know this meal will be a complete hit (at least with us grown-ups!) I’m glad you’ve been having some Zoom fun. I need to up get my crazy family on a group call. It’s been way too long since we’ve all been able to be together and this would indeed be a great way to catch up… without the mask!! I loved all the positivity in this post!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 10, 2020 at 8:33 am

      Thanks, Marcelle – we really need keep a positive attitude through all this stay masked so we can stay negative!

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  20. Kelly | Foodtasia

    July 10, 2020 at 6:26 pm

    David, I’m so craving these shrimp cakes! Such wonderful flavors and that mayo – fabulous! A great idea to host a virtual dinner party!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 12, 2020 at 5:54 am

      Homemade mayonnaise is such an amazing complement! And being able to flavor it anyway you want makes it even more so… We loved entertaining via zoom, as it is the best way we can see our friends now.

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  21. Valentina

    July 11, 2020 at 10:10 pm

    What a fun (and delicious) zoom. We’ve had zoom dinners, but not zoom COOKING dinners. I love the idea! And of course this meal sounds so incredible. The combination of all of those ingredients put together is delectable. 🙂 ~Valentina

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 12, 2020 at 5:55 am

      Thanks, Valentina. The zoom dinners are really helpful right now, but cooking then eating was a lot of fun!

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  22. Inger @ Art of Natural Living

    July 16, 2020 at 6:09 am

    Such a lovely idea David! And now I’m thinking of other virtual things I might do–virtual baking with a friend? Your shrimp cakes look lovely. There is a truck that brings up fresh shrimp from Texas every 3-4 weeks that I am patronizing so this may be in our future! Any tips for the hand chopping?

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      July 18, 2020 at 6:54 am

      Inger — to him chop the shrimp, generally I cut them in half lengthwise and then, depending on how big they are, I might cut them in half again lengthwise. Then I ship them 45° and cut them into small dice. If they haven’t been deveined, this is also a great method to get the vein out. Lucky you getting shrimp from Texas! We got ours from the golf of Baja, and they are really lovely!

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  23. Inger @ Art of Natural Living

    July 16, 2020 at 6:10 am

    chopping of the shrimp I should clarify…

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  24. karan sharma

    September 10, 2020 at 7:38 am

    wow its mouth-watering dish thanks to sharing this blog…

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