“C is for Cookie” ~ Cookie Monster.

Our friends Susan and Towny recently shared this chocolate chip oatmeal cookie recipe with me so that I could demonstrate how to make them for an online cooking class. The class was celebrating what would have been their daughter Alex’s 34th birthday; Alex left this world when she was 26, and she is missed every day. 

These cookies were created by Susan (inspired by a recipe from the RSVP column in The Gourmet Magazine) for Alex. Alex promptly named them after Bilbo, the family’s Glen of Imaal Terrier, as seen below drawn by Alex when she was just 9 years old. I hope you enjoy Bilbo’s Cookies as much as we and our friends do. 

~ David

35 Comments

  1. angiesrecipes

    October 18, 2025 at 4:30 am

    Such a sweet and beautiful tribute to Alex! These cookies look chewy and crispy at the same time…just perfect!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 18, 2025 at 7:50 am

      Thanks, Angie. Alex was a very special young woman… I’m so glad you picked up on the fact that these cookies are both crunchy and chewy at the same time.

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  2. Eha Carr

    October 18, 2025 at 4:42 am

    Love the chocolate and butterscotch chips with the rolled oats . . . beautiful cookies but a sad memory . . . blessings to all . . .

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 18, 2025 at 7:51 am

      It was very sad to lose Alex, but we try to keep her very much alive in our hearts and lives, Eha.

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  3. Mimi Rippee

    October 18, 2025 at 5:01 am

    Oh how awful. I can’t even imagine. Great cookie recipe.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 18, 2025 at 7:52 am

      I’m sure, Mimi. For any parent, this is the unthinkable.

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  4. Carolyne

    October 18, 2025 at 5:08 am

    What a sweet tribute to Alex 🫶

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 18, 2025 at 7:52 am

      Thanks, Carolyne. We do everything we can to keep Alex alive in our hearts and lives every day.

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  5. Mad Dog

    October 18, 2025 at 5:16 am

    They look like delicious cookies. I’m very sorry to hear about Alex.

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  6. Ben | Havocinthekitchen

    October 18, 2025 at 6:50 am

    Such a delightful recipe, David! I love the addition of butterscotch – it adds that warm, nostalgic sweetness and makes these cookies even more irresistible.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 18, 2025 at 7:54 am

      The butterscotch was one of Susan’s additions. It makes them special in a very nice and nostalgic way.

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  7. Barb

    October 18, 2025 at 7:49 am

    My heart goes out to Susan and Towny for the loss of their beautiful angel, Alex. The cookies sound delicious. Thanks for sharing the recipe, Susan.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 18, 2025 at 7:55 am

      Thanks, Barb. Susan & Towny are doing amazing work to help raise awareness for the illness that took Alex. They work tirelessly every single day to make sure this doesn’t happen to anybody else. They are such inspirations!

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  8. sherry

    October 18, 2025 at 6:21 pm

    in fact i would say it’s better to shove your dough into the fridge for a bit before baking :=) These sound great David; I do love an oaty biscuit/cookie!
    sherry

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 20, 2025 at 10:03 am

      I really don’t think you need to chill the dough before baking. But you do you, Sherry!

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  9. Karen (Back Road Journal)

    October 19, 2025 at 9:15 am

    I remember Alex’s passing and this is a lovely tribute.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 20, 2025 at 10:02 am

      Thanks, Karen. It was, indeed, one of the saddest days in my life.

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  10. Jeff the Chef

    October 23, 2025 at 4:00 am

    What a great drawing! She obviously had a budding talent. So sorry that she left so soon. This cookie recipe is a great way to remember her.

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    • David Scott Allen

      October 23, 2025 at 9:05 am

      Thanks, Jeff. She was incredibly creative, so intelligent, and so much fun. And we will always have her cookies.

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  11. Raymund

    October 23, 2025 at 2:48 pm

    Such a beautiful story behind these cookies, David. I love how a simple treat can carry so much love and memory, Bilbo’s Cookies sound extra special because of that.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 25, 2025 at 6:10 am

      Thanks, Raymund. It is a sweet way to remember a wonderful young woman.

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  12. Pauline

    October 24, 2025 at 4:54 pm

    David you have done a wonderful thing, in creating this beautiful memory of Alex and sharing the story. I can’t even imagine what it would be like to lose a child at such a young age. I don’t think I have ever seen butterscotch chips here, I’m sure the biscuits could stand alone without them, but what a wonderful ingredient to add. Added to my shopping list:) Have a wonderful weekend.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 25, 2025 at 6:09 am

      It was truly heartbreaking for Susan and Towny — and for all of Alex’s friends. Thanks for your kind words, Pauline.

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  13. Pauline

    October 24, 2025 at 4:55 pm

    And I meant to say, what a beautiful drawing done by a 9 year old!

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  14. 2pots2cook

    October 25, 2025 at 4:29 am

    Beautiful tribute and beautiful breed as well. So nice of you to participate in keeping the memories alive ……

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      October 25, 2025 at 6:05 am

      You are very sweet, Davorka — she was a wonderful young woman.

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  15. Valentina

    November 4, 2025 at 10:04 am

    I’m so sorry for your friends’ loss. A child leaving the world too soon is so heartbreaking. Sounds like they — all of you — keep her memory alive in a positive way. That drawing is amazing! And the cookies too! I LOVE a good oatmeal cookie, and I call them breakfast. 😉 ~Valentina

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      November 4, 2025 at 10:50 am

      Thanks, Valentina – Alex was such a special person in our lives, and I think she would appreciate that we keep her alive through food and wine!

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  16. Christina

    November 15, 2025 at 12:02 pm

    Such sadness, but a lovely memory every time these cookies are made! The drawing is lovely; Alex was clearly a talented artist at such a young age. Thanks for sharing!

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  17. Dave Guinther

    November 15, 2025 at 6:10 pm

    Can’t wait to try this using butterscotch chips. Our family recipe from Gaga uses walnuts.

    Suggestion – to really amplify the flavor grind sea salt on top of the cookies before baking.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      November 16, 2025 at 6:21 am

      Funny that you should mention salt on oatmeal cookies… Today, I will make Dorothy’s salted oatmeal cookies. Thanks for commenting, Dave. The small amount of butterscotch chips in these cookies really does make a difference.

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  18. Inger

    December 11, 2025 at 6:18 pm

    I can’t think of many nicer tributes David!

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