A Gift.

Our friend Lila was a gifted potter. I can’t count how many times you have seen her pottery on Cocoa & Lavender. Some were things she made for herself or for craft shows (where I got my absolute favorite pie plate), while others are “bespoke” pieces she made just for me: long rectangular platters for loaf cakes, soufflé molds, a ceramic tube pan for bundt cakes, platters for 11-inch tarts, an oval casserole, and a set of plates with Mimbres animal designs. 

Sadly, Lila died in June. Mark and I miss her so much. Her husband Ed misses her immeasurably. Her children and grandchildren miss her very much, as you can imagine. Her book club misses her, too. The world misses her smile, her laugh, and her creativity as well as her tales of adventurous travel (for her 80th birthday she took herself parachute jumping). Lila was a true gift to us all, and how fortunate were we she shared so much of herself with us over the years. 

Today’s recipe for a Blueberry Sour Cream Tart is served on a cake plate made by Lila. The recipe is my version of a Sour Cream Tart that I had at Café au Lait in Princeton, New Jersey, more than forty years ago. It resembles a Finnish tart called mustikkapiirakka which was, perhaps, the inspiration for this recipe. It’s not terribly sweet, in that European way, so it’s perfect for dessert, elevenses, afternoon tea, or even breakfast. Lila would have loved it.

~ David

19 Comments

  1. angiesrecipes

    October 12, 2024 at 5:12 am

    for her 80th birthday she took herself parachute jumping….Lila sounded like an amazing and inspiring lady. I don’t think I would have the gut to do that when I am 80…And how I love that two-toned plate…perfect for presenting the delicious cake, David.

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  2. Mad Dog

    October 12, 2024 at 5:57 am

    Fabulous tart – I could eat a pice now! I’m sorry to hear about your friend Lila, but lovely to be introduced to her beautiful pottery.

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  3. Barb

    October 12, 2024 at 6:03 am

    Lila was obviously a delightful person and a loss to all who knew her. She no doubt would be honored that you have dedicated this post to her. The platter is beautiful and perfect for the fabulous tart you created. As you know, I don’t eat very many desserts, but I will definitely be making this tart. Using the blueberries as pie weights is brilliant!

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  4. Mimi Rippee

    October 12, 2024 at 4:38 pm

    That is a beautiful plate, and an even more beautiful tart! Great story. Great lady.

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  5. FEL!X

    October 12, 2024 at 5:55 pm

    We always wishing to spend more time with beloved friends. So sorry for your loss.
    Lila would love this blueberry tart – and I like it too!

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  6. sherry

    October 12, 2024 at 9:58 pm

    I love the plate and the tart and the story David. I have lost a couple of friends in recent years; the pain lessens but never goes away. Yay for friends like Lila!
    cheers
    sherry

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  7. Frank | Memorie di Angelina

    October 13, 2024 at 5:30 am

    So sorry for your loss, David. And what a lovely way to remember your friend. The tart sounds lovely. I really like the tang you get from sour cream in, say, cheesecake so I imagine you’d get a similar effect here.

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  8. Jeff the Chef

    October 14, 2024 at 7:04 am

    I’m sorry that you lost your friend. I’m glad that you have these things that you love, that you can remember her by. And to grace those items with such things as exquisite as this tart! How nice!

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  9. 2pots2cook

    October 15, 2024 at 5:39 am

    Sorry for your loss. But, it’s nice to have such people around you that leave warm memories after they’re gone…..

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  10. Ben | Havocinthekitchen

    October 16, 2024 at 2:17 pm

    I’m sorry to hear about loosing your friend. But it seems you have a plenty of fond memories – and even some props (the plate looks gorgeous, by the way)! And needless to say this tart looks and sounds so luscious and inviting.

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  11. Gerlinde de Broekert

    October 17, 2024 at 9:35 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss of your friend. Your tart looks perfect to me, not too sweet but creamy.

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  12. Marcelle

    October 18, 2024 at 8:06 am

    I’m so sorry for your loss, David. Lila sounds like a lady with an amazingly adventurous spirit and a lovely source of inspiration to always stay young at heart. Such a beautiful tribute to your friend with her pottery and a gorgeous tart recipe. This dessert looks rich and delicious 💙

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  13. Velva

    October 21, 2024 at 5:43 am

    This is a lovely way to honor your friend Lila. A beautiful pottery dish made by Lila and a delightful tart. She is smiling down. I am very sorry for your loss.

    Velva

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  14. Valentina

    October 21, 2024 at 12:13 pm

    David, I’m so sorry for you loss. Sounds like Lila was a very special friend and person to so many. And inspiring! The tart is beautiful, and the platter, even more so. Sending love, Valentina

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  15. Raymund

    October 22, 2024 at 2:31 pm

    What a heartfelt tribute to your friend Lila! Your memories of her pottery and the special pieces she created for you really highlight the bond you shared. It’s touching how you’ve captured not just her talent but her adventurous spirit and the joy she brought to those around her. Very sorry for your loss.

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  16. Inger

    October 27, 2024 at 7:16 am

    Sorry for the loss of your friend but what a lovely tribute. (And tart!)

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  17. Karen (Back Road Journal)

    November 3, 2024 at 8:52 am

    Sorry for the loss of your friend. I’m sure she would be thrilled with your kind words. The tart sounds wonderful.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      November 3, 2024 at 9:03 pm

      Thanks, Karen. I think of her often and feel like she’s with me all the time, especially in the kitchen.

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  18. Christina Conte

    November 16, 2024 at 9:00 am

    So sorry to hear about your loss, David. Lila sounds like an old friend of mine, Maisie, from Scotland. She was a hoot. Lila’s plate complements the beautiful tart perfectly. I’m sure you’ll cherish it always. xx

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