A First Time for Everything

In the summer of 1977, following my freshman year of college, I drove to Long Island, New York, to meet up with a few college friends to see the very first Star Wars movie. As I drove by New York City, I was blown away by the skyline. I had never seen anything like it.

After the movie, we all decided to go out for Chinese food. There was a heated discussion over choosing Szechuan (Sichuan) versus Hunan. Never having had any Chinese food, I had no idea what either meant. We ended up at a Szechuan place and I relied on my friends to order for me.

My favorite part of that day — yes, even more than the movie — was tasting this completely unfamiliar cuisine. My specific memories are vague — hot chiles, strongly-flavored brown sauces, and never-before-seen vegetables (bamboo shoots? water chestnuts?). 

I remember only one specific dish from that night — Sesame Noodles with a slightly spicy and creamy sauce. I was smitten and continue to love it. Over the years, I’ve tinkered with multiple recipes to put together a version that is my favorite way to make this dish. (The biggest change was my discovery of Chinese sesame paste — prior to that I was using tahini. Big difference!)

This year, I made the noodles for our Lunar New Year dinner — the Year of the Rabbit. I think the rabbit would like the peas and cucumbers. I hope you enjoy it.

~ David

34 Comments

  1. Jean | DelightfulRepast.com

    March 18, 2023 at 6:55 am

    Ohh. myy. This sounds perfect, David! I definitely want to make this. Almost as much as I want to eat it!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 18, 2023 at 10:59 am

      It really is so good – I’m making it a little too often these days! Thanks for your comment, Jean!

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  2. Mad Dog

    March 18, 2023 at 7:00 am

    That looks great – I love Sichuan food. Have your read Shark’s Fin and Sichuan Pepper, by Fuchsia Dunlop? She was the first foreigner and woman to be allowed to study at the Sichuan Cooking School.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 18, 2023 at 10:58 am

      I love Fuchsia Dunlop – she is one of my go-to sources for authenticity. But I have not read Shark’s Fin and Sichuan Pepper – must add that to my list!

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  3. Mimi Rippee

    March 18, 2023 at 7:05 am

    Well, now I have another damn ingredient I need to order from Amazon! I had no idea that there is a Chinese sesame paste! Fabulous noodles. And a great story.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 18, 2023 at 10:56 am

      You will be glad you knocked on Amazon’s door – it’s great stuff! Glad you like the recipe!

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  4. Linda Doughty

    March 18, 2023 at 8:14 am

    I fell in love with sesame noodles when I lived in Brooklyn back in the previous century. They were a new experience for me then, too, and I ordered them whenever we’d go out to Chinese dinner in a group in Manhattan, usually before a concert. I can’t wait to try this, though I’ll need to find sesame paste. I’ve made them with peanut butter and sesame oil. Thanks!!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 18, 2023 at 10:55 am

      Lucky for us, I can correct the autocorrect! New York was such a wealth of good Chinese restaurants. Did you ever go to Nom Wah’s Tea Parlor? Lee lee has the sesame paste, Linda!

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  5. Eha

    March 18, 2023 at 2:57 pm

    David – you must hear my clapping from here, surely! Yes – all my favourite ingredients in the style of cooking I love most . . . but, a little different again and already atop my kitchen file ! Cannot wait to make it ‘your way’ and shall report back . . . Absolutely love your chopsticks . . . way back when my older daughter brought me back wo dozen (yup!!!) pairs of dark red ones from Shanghai . . . well, sensible me has not indulged in more ‘exciting’ stuff since . . .

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 19, 2023 at 10:46 am

      Like in many cultures and households, everyone has a slightly different Do hope you like mine!

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  6. Pat Weigand

    March 18, 2023 at 3:25 pm

    Would this fall into the umami taste category? It sounds wonderful, and the picture is gorgeous. Also, I love the colors in the cloth. And I must confess, I copied the pic of your too cute bunny… Pat

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 19, 2023 at 10:45 am

      I think it would fall into the umami category… The cloth was a scarf worn by a good friend who left this world three years ago. So nice to have a lovely reminder of her. And I’m glad you liked my bunny photo — seemed appropriate. 🙂

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  7. Ronit

    March 19, 2023 at 9:35 am

    Many times, the simplest dishes are the best.
    I’ll save your recipe and give it a try, as soon as I can get Chinese sesame paste, which I’ve never tried. 🙂

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 19, 2023 at 10:43 am

      That is exactly what I say to myself — KISS. (Keep It Simple Stupid.) Joking aside, I love simple dishes — and I’m so glad I found the Chinese sesame paste!

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      • Ronit

        March 19, 2023 at 2:23 pm

        I’m a big believer in the KISS method. I think it should be applied to just about any aspect of life! 🙂

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  8. Jen D

    March 19, 2023 at 2:23 pm

    Back in the day on the Main Line, we used to schlep downtown to a restaurant called South China for our Asian cuisine experience. Now you can’t swing a cat (bad metaphor for this conversation . . .) in that area without hitting a Chinese restaurant. Times have changed! Anyway, I LOVE sesame noodles. This is now on our high priority cooking list — for Steve to make! But first we have a few ingredients to acquire! Thanks for sharing 🙂

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 21, 2023 at 2:04 am

      I wish my parents had been more adventurous in their culinary world. For us, an ethic night out was at Paolini’s in Bryn Mawr. Somehow I found my way to this amazing world of food! Let me know if I can help you source the ingredients you need!

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  9. Jill Jill

    March 20, 2023 at 11:10 pm

    Must try. Love noodles. Where can I get the cute rabbit?

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 21, 2023 at 2:06 am

      The bunny is in our front garden — but is shooed away by Mr. MacGregor on a regular basis.

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  10. Jeff the Chef

    March 21, 2023 at 7:40 am

    So many of these ingredients are unfamiliar to me, but I love Asian foods, and I’ve always wanted to learn to make them at home.

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 21, 2023 at 7:53 am

      They are so much fun to make at home — just clear a large space in your pantry for all the new ingredients you’re going to need! I have 4 different kinds of soy plus a tamari, fish sauce, kecap manis, oyster sauce (you should have a vegetarian version, too), shaoxing wine, sake, sesame paste, sesame oil, noodles of all varieties… you get the idea!

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  11. Kelly | Foodtasia

    March 21, 2023 at 12:44 pm

    These would really hit the spot, David! I’ll have to keep my eye out for the Chinese sesame paste!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 21, 2023 at 2:55 pm

      It’s definitely worth finding, Kelly. Hope you’re doing well!

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  12. Raymund

    March 21, 2023 at 1:47 pm

    Thanks for sharing your experience, David! It sounds like you had a memorable first time trying Chinese food and that Sesame Noodles dish sounds delicious. I’ve never tried Chinese sesame paste before, does it taste like tahini? I’ll definitely have to give it a try in this recipe. Thanks for sharing the recipe, and happy Lunar New Year!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 21, 2023 at 2:55 pm

      I think the way to describe Chinese sesame paste is that is less sweet and more earthy than tahini. It definitely makes a difference in the recipe. And happy Lunar New Year to you, as well!

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  13. sherry

    March 21, 2023 at 9:35 pm

    I’d have to go for crunchy peanut butter David 🙂 As Alice Zaslavsky (a well-known Aussie cook) says, ‘it has to be crunchy otherwise there’s something missing!’

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 22, 2023 at 8:58 pm

      You can do as you wish! I’ll stick to creamy as that is the texture I prefer.

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  14. Valentina

    March 22, 2023 at 3:14 pm

    For me, few meals are more comforting than Asian noodle dishes. Love the food memories and the recipe! 🙂 ~Valentina
    P.S. Cute rabbit!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 22, 2023 at 9:01 pm

      Don’t you just love the bunny? Not sure how he hot uo on our wall, but… I agree about the comfort of Asian noodle dishes — more coming soon!

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  15. Christina Conte

    March 24, 2023 at 5:37 pm

    This sounds delicious, David! I just took a friend to lunch at Din Tai Fung today! Love simple noodle dishes like this! Adding to my ever-growing list!!

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      March 25, 2023 at 11:18 am

      I know what you mean about the list. I have so many good recipes saved from you and other bloggers — but if I made all the, I’d never have time to create for my own blog! Still, I get in quite a few

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  16. 2pots2cook

    March 31, 2023 at 5:17 am

    This it wonderful. Must try! But first, have to find Chinese sesame paste….

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    • Cocoa & Lavender

      April 5, 2023 at 6:34 am

      It’s worth finding it, if you can! It really is amazing. If you can’t find it, tahini will work.

      Reply

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